One of the key segments at the beginning of the Bigg Boss seasons is the opportunity to share one's life with others. Devu got the opportunity yesterday. When Devu talked about the difficulties she faced on her way through, it was the first time the contestants knew it. Many people heard it with tears in their eyes.
Read Devu's full words here:
I am the only daughter of my father and mother. A very nice girls who is quiet and compact. A love strike in the 8th grade and I started getting down in my studies. My father and mother wanted me to get into a good profession. But the greatest fortune I found was marriage. I got married at the age of 22 without paying any attention for education. There are many things that I encountered in that house. It was people saying don't do this, don't do that, regardless of me as a person. What they needed was someone who would cook food in the morning, wash, and iron their husband's clothes. He said one day that he wanted a child. I was not mentally ready for that. It was not possible to contact my family then. I have only been upright for a month while pregnant. Later, it was bed rest for six months.
Meanwhile, they went to my house and asked for my property and things without my knowledge. Mother's reply was that she would not give it to me even if she gave it to the orphanage. The in-laws turned around. Even when I was pregnant, neither my husband nor my family looked after me. My mind started to get out of hand. I wanted a child. Didn't know what to do. No father or mother This is how they behave. The delivery took place in the sixth month. It was a baby girl. No postnatal care was received. It costs nothing. If they wanted something, they wanted to bring it from home. Due to the poor health of the baby, it was difficult to give milk. Three weeks after giving birth, the husband came home one day drunk. He tried to sexually assault me. I was hospitalised. I was sure they would stop me there if I said anything when I came back.
One morning, when I was able to stand up, I took the baby and went straight home. When we talked about things, my father said that we could file for divorce from there. But it was not needed. I filed for divorce from there. I was mentally down. The baby had an epilepsy problem. Treatment was to be done every month. Otherwise baby would not speak. She was given speech therapy. I wanted a job. It was time for my father to retire. That day, I understood the value of education. I went straight to Bangalore. Having a few friends can get things going.
There's a reaction you get from people when you're a single mother. Either you are okay with getting married or you should move on from it. There is no need to think about society or parents. Because there is a condition where termites climb the tree when it is held there. I have three things to say. I am a fighter. No matter what you do, I won't lose. Tell girls that marriage or divorce is not the end. Say no where you have to say no. Society will say what they feel. This is your life. You can build your own world.
